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זיו תדהר מספר את סיפורו האישי כילד לזוג הורים אשכנזים שבחרו מרצונם לגור בשנות ה-70 בדימונה

זיו תדהר מציג סיפור אישי יוצא דופן – סיפור על בחירה הפוכה מהמקובל. הוריו, זוג אשכנזים עם "בוחן מציאות תקין", בחרו להישאר בדימונה, למרות כל הלחצים החברתיים והציפיות "הגנטיות והתרבותיות" לעבור למרכז הארץ. הבחירה הזו לוותה בזלזול מצד חבריהם במרכז, שלא הבינו מה להם ולעיירת עולים בפריפריה.

תדהר טוען כי הסנוביזם האמתי איננו במי שבוחר לחיות במקום אליטיסטי, אלא דווקא במי שבוחר אחרת – בלי להקטין אחרים. הוא מתאר ילדות לא פשוטה, בה נאלץ לשאת בשתי סטיגמות במקביל: גם ילד מהפריפריה וגם אשכנזי חריג במרחב שונה תרבותית.

בדבריו עולה מסר חזק של גאווה בזהות ובבחירה הלא אופנתית. עבורו, הוריו הם סמל לאנשים שבחרו באמת ובטוב — לא במראית העין או בציפייה החברתית. והלקח? אפשר לחיות אחרת, גם בלי להיסחף עם הזרם, ואפילו להרוויח מזה – בראייה מפוכחת על החיים.

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16 ימים לפני

The right wing religious people should point out that their reason for having issues with the Jews, is different from the lefts reasons to have issues with the Jews. Hopefully it will cause them to worry more about what left wing takeover of their government means for the white gentile people.
I think that white gentile leaders agreed to force the white gentiles to speak truthfully about racial inequality, through non white mass migration, but even if they were forced, so what? If the white gentiles maintain their commitment to moral principals, then good. But if they cannot, then they miss out on the blessings.
Considering their location, and the description of their offspring, it is likely that Avraham and Sarah, were not pure white, but were in fact mixed white and non white. Avraham and Sarah had Isaac, and Isaac had Jacob and Esav. They were twins, descriptions written in a place I know not, claim that Esav had red hair, implying a very white complexion. Regardless, if A white couple, of mixed genealogy have many kids, who have many grandkids, some of those grand kids will be lighter in complexion, and some will be darker.
Arab Muslim dictators never cry, when will be able to live in peace. They say you want to start something, we are going to mess you up. We need to embrace that idea, among others, but first you need to know who our people are, and who the people of the world are. Stand up for yourself, or be destroyed. In G-d I trust.
The most productive arrangement, between whites and blacks, during our time when no cure for inequality exists, is to allow whites to manage blacks, so their standard of living can increase, their unemployment levels will decrease, especially in Africa. The best way to promote this most productive of arrangements, is to promote blacks submitting to white male leadership.
Success follows the pattern of IQ scores considerably. Blacks used to be very united, with very strong families, but they were still on the bottom of America economically. Also, if China conquers the west coast, I doubt you will tell your grand kids not to take it back. In G-d I trust.
As long as our governments continue to be illegitimate liars, there is no reason to accept with confidence, anything AI says, at any time. It could literally be programed to trip you up at any time, to keep you working, and enslaved to it.
I wonder if it is accurate to say that the leaders of the white gentiles of America and western Europe have been sacrificed by their leaders, like the black africans sold off their own people.
If Iron sharpens Iron, then doesn’t hedonistic stupidity, promote hedonistic stupidity?
Pertaining to this concern about the many steps it will take to making the Jewish people understand why it is important for them to champion a kingdom of G-d, and why it is important for them to follow edicts in the Torah, such as those that say that Jews in Israel should not live with gentiles, I think that working out the process, documenting the many logical justifications, will create a way forward for our advocates, and they will be able to implement the plan for marching forward better, even if I and we miss a few steps.
I think that there are Mitzvas, associated with the health of our selves, our families, societies, and nation, that determine if we will be granted victory over the enemy of human kind. Those I cannot see yet, but G-d willing we will make some progress. How are the hearts of our women? Do they understand that we need to act like masculine men, in order to avoid provoking the men of the Arab Muslims? How is the relationship between less mixed Jews, and more mixed Jews? At least as best we are able to tell about how mixed a Jew is? How comfortable are we with our assumed inequalities over the issue of our mixed heritage?
How comfortable are we with treating the white gentiles as flawed, and the Arab Muslims as potential threats? Be comforted, those Jews who help Israel fight in the spiritual and philosophical realm in this world, will be elevated and enriched in the next world, which will come about as soon as this world ends, which appears to be very potentially soon.
The gentiles have always reacted badly to the realization of Jewish inequality. Perhaps we can talk them down from destroying everything, but probably it will be irrationally dangerous and hostile for Jews to live in exile for a long time. In G-d I trust.

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Is there a better way, to show the investors of the world, that the Jewish people are ready to stand up to Islam, that they are ready to stand up for Jewish rights, that they will not be divided, then to support the building of the Temple on the Mount? Is there anything better the Jewish people can do, then come together, and right the historic wrong, of allowing all those racist gentiles who stupidly, foolishly and immorally tried to conquer the capital of the Jewish people and the Jewish Temple, and claim the Jewish destiny for their own people?

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